How to Buy for “The Person Who Has Everything”

Yes, there’s still something they’ll actually love.

We all have one. That person on your gift list who’s notoriously hard to buy for. They’ve got the latest gadgets, every kitchen tool known to man, and somehow—always—beat you to the punch on anything cool or clever.

So what do you get someone who has everything? The answer isn’t more stuff. It’s meaning.

Here’s how to stop stressing and start gifting smarter—with practical ideas and proven strategies that’ll leave even the “impossible to shop for” genuinely impressed.

1. Think Beyond Things—Give an Experience

Physical items wear out, go out of style, or end up forgotten in a drawer. But experiences? They create stories, spark emotion, and live on in memory.

Consider:

  • A cooking class with a local chef
  • A mystery picnic or escape room challenge
  • Tickets to a play, concert, or event they wouldn’t normally splurge on
  • A hot air balloon ride or a guided wine tour

 

Even a gift card for a favourite restaurant or spa day feels luxurious when it’s personalised with a note like, “Take a night off—this one’s on me.”

It’s not about being extravagant. It’s about giving them something they’ll actually do, enjoy, and remember.

2. Tap Into Their Values, Not Their Wishlist

If they don’t need anything, focus on what they care about. Thoughtful gifts that align with their passions or beliefs feel incredibly meaningful.

Do they love animals? Donate to a wildlife rescue in their name. Are they sustainability-minded? A reusable travel set or subscription to a zero-waste box can be both practical and aligned with their values.

It shows you’ve paid attention—not just to their lifestyle, but to who they are.

Real example:

Instead of giving a fashion-loving friend another handbag, one customer gifted her a framed illustration of iconic runway looks from the year she was born. Unique, thoughtful, and totally her.

3. Go Personal—Literally

Personalised gifts always stand out. Whether it’s a monogrammed robe, a custom portrait of their pet, or a “Where We Met” map print, it tells them: This was made just for you.

And no, you don’t need to spend hours crafting something handmade. There are tools (like our gift quiz) that help you quickly match personal details to tailored gift ideas that feel custom—without the stress.

4. Make It Useful—but Unexpected

The trick? Combine surprise with practicality.

Instead of buying something they already own, think about a clever upgrade or a tool they’d never buy for themselves—but would secretly love.

  • A temperature-controlled smart mug
  • A beautiful weekly planner with handwritten affirmations
  • A subscription box tailored to their hobbies (wine tasting, puzzles, artisan snacks)

 

It’s the kind of gift they never knew they needed—until they had it.

5. Gift Time, Not Just Things

Sometimes, the best gift is you. For someone who already has “everything,” offer quality time—dinner together, a shared activity, or even a pre-booked weekend away.

Write a card saying, “Your calendar’s now blocked off. Let’s spend the day doing [insert activity they love]. My shout.”

It’s thoughtful. It’s personal. And it reminds them that gifts don’t always come in wrapping paper.

Final Thoughts: They Don’t Want “More”—They Want Meaning**

Buying for someone who has everything isn’t about finding something they don’t own. It’s about giving them something that matters.

That could be an experience, a shared moment, or simply a well-chosen gift that speaks to who they are.

And the best part? With the right tools, it’s not nearly as hard as it sounds.